Changing our life is typically not an overnight event (unless your that one Mega Million winner in SC - congrats!) but maybe changing our expectations can feel like changing our life? Really? Not always - but it can help. By changing what we or perspective and what we expect can change how we feel about most situations. Easier said than done for sure. Because I know for me I have to be calm, not emotional and maybe by myself to have the foresight to do this. I WISH I could say I didn’t need a do-over button frequently.  BY letting go of how you thought it would be you are free to enjoy and embrace what it actually is.